Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Elementary Nostalgia

So…I’m not in Ireland and I haven’t posted anything on here since I was there, but I felt compelled to write this and it wouldn't fit in a Facebook post so…here it goes!

My neighbor Angie* has two daughters Ellie* (9) and Maddie* (almost 7) and we were chatting today about their teachers for Fourth and First grade, and it made me incredibly nostalgic. Only one of my primary classroom teachers is still teaching in the same grade as when I attended Granby, and only a small fraction of the teachers who I felt instrumental to my experience are still teaching at Granby at all. It got me thinking about my favorite memories from each teacher and from each year, and as I am going to be leaving for my senior year in college in a little less than a week, I think it’s appropriate to look back to the beginning of my educational career.

First Grade: Ms. Clement
The thing I most clearly remember from this year is reading group. We were split into different reading groups and, I don’t mean to brag, but I was in the highest level, which meant I got to read a series of books and then write my own story. Ms. Clement encouraged us to be as creative as possible in our stories. Once we had written them, we got to go to the office—which was a HUGE deal—and have them bound. We got to choose three symbols from the die-cut machine, and we picked wallpaper to put around the cardboard cover for our books. I still have mine (somewhere…I think…) and I can’t wait to have the rush of memories come back again when I re-find it.

Second Grade: Mrs. Minor
Mrs. Minor introduced me to poetry for the first time. She had us memorize a poem every week, and then once we knew it we had to recite it in front of the class. She taught me that I had to face my fears of getting up in front of a big group and talking. There was a big difference between being a know-it-all from your seat and a perfect performer of a poem. I still remember the first poem we had to memorize:
                Fuzzy wuzzy was a bear
                Fuzzy wuzzy had no hair
                Fuzzy wuzzy wasn’t very fuzzy, was he?

Third Grade: Mr. Frederick
My first male teacher. It was scary as an eight year old who’d never had one before! He was one of my favorites. He brought me to Roald Dahl and my classmates that year became some of my best friends in elementary school. He taught me how to play chess and that the news was important, even for kids. But most importantly, he gave me my “no tolerance” attitude on bullying, but with kindness behind it. You see, I had to get glasses that year and one of the boys in my class decided that it would be okay to call me “four-eyes” which devastated me. I was teary-eyed when Mr. Frederick asked what had happened and he took the boy aside and explained to him calmly, but firmly, why what he said was wrong and had him apologize to me.

Fourth Grade: Mrs. Dickie
Mrs. Dickie was the most no-nonsense teacher I had. She didn’t allow students to get away with things in class, and it was such an awesome experience. Fourth grade was the first year where we “switched classes” so I had Mr. Korn and Ms. Paris too, but I loved Mrs. Dickie. She was such a great lover of all knowledge: she taught Math—God bless her—and made it fun; and she got me to read one of my favorite books, Holes, that I never would have read without her prompting.

Fifth Grade: Mrs. Sartor
Mrs. Sartor, or Old Lady Sartor as she called herself, gave me so much. I will never be taller than her—despite the fact that my height eclipsed hers by halfway through the year—and she gave me my favorite number: eleventy-six. I will always remember how she encouraged me, challenged me, and laughed with me throughout the year. Fifth grade was my favorite year not just because of her, but because of our class. I ended up seated next to three boys—Josh, Daniel, and Jedi—and I thought, “Oh no, I’m the only girl, they’re going to tease me SO MUCH.” How wrong I was. I loved sitting next to them because I could talk to them about Lord of the Rings and Pirates of the Caribbean and Harry Potter and they didn’t think I was weird. It was awesome. But the most poignant memory I have of that year was our valentines. On February 14, instead of doing Valentine’s Day boxes and buying cardboard valentines, Mrs. Sartor made 20-something giant hearts, and gave us each enough sticky notes to write a message to each person in the class which couldn’t be “you’re nice” or “you’re cool”. They had to be genuine compliments. Then we read them out loud. It was beautiful.

Sixth Grade: Mrs. Watson
Let me just start by saying that Mrs. Watson had a reading couch in her room. A COUCH. Everyone initially wanted to be in her class just for that, but as soon as you had her, you realized how much you’d lucked out. She didn’t allow the EPP kids to have any breaks: we did all the work that the other students did, and we were never treated any differently because she believed in fairness. I remember specifically having to be paired with a girl I didn’t like for a science experiment and I complained to her about it. She wasn’t mean, but she explained to me that people are people and we have to learn to work with them, no matter what. She taught me that everyone deserves your kindness and your respect, no matter how they treat you.

EPP: Mrs. Beyer
Mrs. Beyer was the most formative teacher I had at Granby. She taught me in what’s called “EPP” or the Extended Projects Program, a gifted program at my elementary school, for five years. She taught me how to write, how to think outside the box, and how to program a robot. She awakened a love for the human stories of history that I would never have found without her, and she encouraged my love of fantasy literature. I will never be able to thank her for the confidence in my intelligence that she gave me, and the joy that I came to in her class. Mrs. Beyer showed me that the cool kids were the smart kids, and that I didn't have to be ashamed of being smart.


These are just moments in time that I happen to recall, and I encourage everyone to think back to that time in their lives. It’s an amazing time. I keep remembering more and more, but this post is already a little long!

*Names changed to protect privacy as I didn't ask their mother before writing and posting this!

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

A Post Script...But Not an Ending

So. I know that this blog was kind of...sparse, to say the least. But, for me, it did serve to allow me to chronicle some of the most amazing experiences I've had over the past four months in Ireland and other countries abroad.

I've been home now for about a week and a half, and I still can't believe that my semester with "The Dubs" is over. We became a family, which I never would have imagined could really happen, and I would count each and every one of those men and women as my true friends. We are a crazy awesome bunch, if I do say so myself, and I had an amazing semester. I also learned SO MUCH about myself and about what it means to be a representative of your country abroad. Here is a list of the things I learned:

1. Irish is confusing, but beautiful. And I still can't say Táin Bó Cúailnge correctly, no matter how hard my friend Connor tried to teach me!

2. Traveling with someone who speaks the language of the place you're going is incredibly helpful. Not having someone who can speak the language is infinitely more fun.

3. I want to live in Rome.

4. I want to live in London.

5. Can I just go back to Ireland now please?--will be a catch phrase of the next semester whenever I want to have more time to do an assignment.

6. Exams can be taken with 2000+ people in the equivalent of a barn, and still turn out okay.

7. Talking to strangers is so helpful it's unreal. But only do this in Ireland; beware in other cities!

8. Traveling with other students is wonderful. Traveling with your parents is wonderful. Traveling on your own is wonderful. Essentially, I really just learned that I love to travel.

9. A mattress pad is God's gift to my back and I am so glad to have it back.

10. Hugging each other at mass during the sign of peace is a privilege, not a right.

11. People, in general, are awesome until proven otherwise. In Ireland, they're pretty much just awesome.


All of these wonders aside, I was pretty homesick and "Dome-sick" at the end of the semester. I was anxious to get back to my family, friends, and "Home Under the Dome" of Notre Dame. I missed my best friends, my choir, and my ISI family terribly, and I am so excited to be able to see them all soon. I can't wait to be on a choir bus for a week meeting all the new Choralians and singing in my hometown (St. Agatha Church, 7:30pm, Saturday 11 January 2014--shameless plug). I can't wait to sing God's praises at Iron Sharpens Iron and hear one of my peers inspire me with a talk. I can't wait to move in with my new roommate in the hottest dorm on campus, Pasquerilla East, and to see all the amazing Pyros that brighten up my day. I can't wait to walk around campus in the snow, to see the Golden Dome glisten in the sunlight, to sit down in new classes,with new faces, and new friends. I can't wait to explore Notre Dame with fresh eyes, and to add my new experiences to the long list of why I am among the luckiest of the lucky, for I attend the greatest of all universities with the greatest of all student bodies which believes in the greatest God of all things: The University of Notre Dame. And that is the most important thing I've realized since being abroad. That I am privileged, and lucky. I guess, in a sense, it's the Luck of the Irish.




P.S.: This will not be my last blog post here. Wayfaring isn't something that just happens overseas; I think it happens everywhere. So this blog will now chronicle my life in whatever words come to me, be they rants, prose, praise, or anything else. Please consider joining me!